They say confidence is sexy. Confidence is appealing and attractive. Knowingly or unknowingly, this is something that drives us crazy. We get inclined towards the confident peoples. We all want to stay confident.
If you are one of it, then here are six secrets, that can tell you how to be confident and to boost the level of confidence that you already have.
Smile and laugh
If you dare to laugh in public, with group of peoples, it shows how comfortable and nice you are feeling about yourself and and how sure you are about the things you are doing and talking about. This adds a positive gesture to your personality.
Remove all types of negatives from your life
Well, things can get negative anywhere. If you have any negative thoughts, if you have negative peoples in life, in relationships, just eliminate it. Negativity is poisonous. If you feel there are some thoughts or some peoples, are pulling you down, and its against your self respect and its an obstacle in your growth, then its alarm. Move on, eliminate such negativities from life. They surly impact on your confidence. Directly or indirectly negative impacts your self-esteem, and you automatically feel less confident.
Help, for no specific reason.
Have you ever felt that? The feeling of ‘So good’ when you actually help someone, without any idea of getting something in return. Do this, whenever you get a chance to help someone, a needy, do help. You will thank yourself for this feeling. And this feeling of self gratitude, boosts your confidence to a very high-level.
Appreciate-Others for good!
Do appreciate others, You feel good when someone appreciates you. You might be thinking bad about one person, but all of a sudden when you hear a word of appreciation from this person, your view changes. You feel, ahh I was so wrong since all these days. How cool this person is. So unknowingly, you start admiring this person and his confident gesture of saying it to you on your face, how he feels (all positive). Similarly when you appreciate others for good, this increases your confidence. You come in good eyes of others.
Love your own body
food and exercise, they are directly proportional to your mental and physical growth and these growths are directly proportional to your level of confidence. Do something good for your own body, your mind everyday. If you love dancing, do it. You love eating ice-cream, do it once in a while. Do unique something everyday just to please yourself. Walk for 10 mins, cook a good meal, read a book. Do whatever, but do something everyday. You will feel happy this way, and happiness is great booster of confidence.
Often, often do this. Appreciate your own body, your hair, the way you tackle things or your sense of humor. Our soul craves it. We allways feel connected good, when we feel we are appreciated. You will get more closure to yourself when you start appreciating yourself. So dont forget to pat yourself when you did something amazing. Do remember when you are feeling good, automatically your surrounding will look good to you.
This is how you boost your confidence, but as they say practicing is the key, don’t forget to practice this everyday.
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